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Hope Faculty: (Life Issues) Stop Assuming!

Hope Faculty has dealt with a few situations where members have been upset. most of the upsetting comes from the one person not being happy how things turned out. But what we at Hope Faculty noticed that many times it’s because a person has assumed an outcome in their head, which in the end has not gone to plan simply because they assumed logistically things would turn out as they planned or predicted. It could be for very simple reasons. A common one at the Hope Faculty is a person thought someone they would be depending on for things to run smoothly, would automatically make the choice or act how they would or wanted.

So, in this type of situation if you’re a person who gets upset when things do not go your way, you have to understand that communication is a better way for you.

When the issue is interacting, or depending on someone else, remember even if your family and you know the person inside out, when you get a moment or if you have to make a chance, get their attention, look in their eyes and tell them what you demand or what the whole pending interaction outcome is depending on. And if they are a key part and they agree you will be happy and your worries will be at ease and if they don’t its better you thrash it out there and then and see if you can find, negotiate or manipulate a middle ground that suits you.

In most circumstances, the person your interacting doesn’t know or has their own agenda. That’s why certain situations you can’t rely on fate and you have to be active especially if it’s your happiness or your own life at stake, however major or minor the issue or consequence.

 

That’s Hope Faculty.

 

 

Hope Faculty: (Life Issues) Stop Assuming

 

Hope Faculty has dealt with a few situations where members have been upset. most of the upsetting comes from the one person not being happy how things turned out. But what we at Hope Faculty noticed that many times it’s because a person has assumed an outcome in their head, which in the end has not gone to plan simply because they assumed logistically things would turn out as they planned or predicted. It could be for very simple reasons. A common one at the Hope Faculty is a person thought someone they would be depending on for things to run smoothly, would automatically make the choice or act how they would or wanted.

 

So, in this type of situation if you’re a person who gets upset when things do not go your way, you have to understand that communication is a better way for you.

 

When the issue is interacting, or depending on someone else, remember even if your family and you know the person inside out, when you get a moment or if you have to make a chance, get their attention, look in their eyes and tell them what you demand or what the whole pending interaction outcome is depending on. And if they are a key part and they agree you will be happy and your worries will be at ease and if they don’t its better you thrash it out there and then and see if you can find, negotiate or manipulate a middle ground that suits you.

 

In most circumstances, the person your interacting doesn’t know or has their own agenda. That’s why certain situations you can’t rely on fate and you have to be active especially if it’s your happiness or your own life at stake, however major or minor the issue or consequence.

 

That’s Hope Faculty.

 

Hope Faculty has dealt with a few situations where members have been upset. most of the upsetting comes from the one person not being happy how things turned out. But what we at Hope Faculty noticed that many times it’s because a person has assumed an outcome in their head, which in the end has not gone to plan simply because they assumed logistically things would turn out as they planned or predicted. It could be for very simple reasons. A common one at the Hope Faculty is a person thought someone they would be depending on for things to run smoothly, would automatically make the choice or act how they would or wanted.

 

So, in this type of situation if you’re a person who gets upset when things do not go your way, you have to understand that communication is a better way for you.

 

When the issue is interacting, or depending on someone else, remember even if your family and you know the person inside out, when you get a moment or if you have to make a chance, get their attention, look in their eyes and tell them what you demand or what the whole pending interaction outcome is depending on. And if they are a key part and they agree you will be happy and your worries will be at ease and if they don’t its better you thrash it out there and then and see if you can find, negotiate or manipulate a middle ground that suits you.

 

In most circumstances, the person your interacting doesn’t know or has their own agenda. That’s why certain situations you can’t rely on fate and you have to be active especially if it’s your happiness or your own life at stake, however major or minor the issue or consequence.

 

That’s Hope Faculty.

 

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